I was recently talking to Brandi (a great, very close friend of mine who is also self-employed) and she was sharing how she felt about a conversation with a past client.

They had a great relationship until the client asked her for free work on an upcoming project. Brandi took the time to craft a very kind email explaining why she wouldn't be able to proceed with the project in that way.

Even though she knew she did the right thing, she really wished she could have said how she was actually feeling...

I was recently asked the question, "What should photographers wear?"

The obvious answer is that it depends on the shoot, and what your client expects! Generally, I try to wear comfortable shoes and all black clothing (so that I don't stand out). Jamie Benjamin is a great example in this photo!

Otherwise, I kind of try to follow these ideas:

• Casual events: casual clothing
• Professional events: blazer + work pants
• Wedding/family photos: yoga pants and a nice shirt (since I often get into awkward places or lie on the ground, I need to be super comfortable!)
• Headshot/product/brand photography: depends on the client and the location!

What I would love to know: what do YOU expect photographers to wear?

Over the past six years, I've learned a lot about the business side of photography. The part that might be surprising: I equally love taking photos and running the business!

I found where I had strengths and where I made mistakes (then fixed them!). What I've realized is that most of this information is applicable to so many industries - not just photography.

I'm feeling silly today, and thought it would be entertaining to share my 5 thoughts on how to make it really hard for people to work with you.